The Struggles of a Man Packing a 22-cm Beast

So, here’s the raw deal: my live-in girlfriend outright refuses to get down and dirty with me. She straight-up says she’s not into it, doesn’t enjoy it, and it friggin’ hurts her because, well, I’m hauling around a hefty 22 cm down there (yeah, I know, it’s a lot to handle).
I’m losing my damn mind over this. I can’t just live like a monk, you know? She’s throwing out the idea of splitting up, but fuck, I don’t want to lose her either. I’m stuck in this messed-up limbo, not knowing what the hell to do.
Back when we started dating, we did have sex, but she was never into it—always complaining it wasn’t her thing—so over time, we just stopped completely. I’m her first, by the way, so no experience on her end. And before you ask, I’m 100% sure she’s not stepping out on me.
What’s a guy supposed to do with this kind of equipment when the love of his life can’t handle the ride?
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